As I see myself and most of my friends starting a new
chapter in life as we all step into 30, is there a sudden rage to do a lot many
things than you anticipated? The bucket list unexpectedly seems to be the
highest priority.
I barely recall things that I wished for happened while I was
in 20’s. Of course there always will be a few incidents that happened without
much in your control. For now, let’s flush those off. I don’t have anything against
all the twenty’s something but I honestly
feel your 20’s aren't the best of years.
30’s definitely yes. This is why….
When you try and find yourself as a person, making
mistakes become inevitable. By that I don’t mean, you are all perfect and
sorted when in 30’s. It’s just that you
get a lot more knowledgeable about stuff and make an informed decision rather
than just assuming and then failing miserably and hoping the reverse assumption
had worked. You have more direction towards what you want in life. This may
sound cliched, but you definitely grow wiser as you get older. I say this not
with the pretext of hair turning grey, but more on the lines of caring less
about other people’s opinions of you and more about your own.
Women out there will love me for this and men surely will
envy. Hell yeah, women in their thirties are smoking hot and a lot sexier. They exude
confidence than ever before and play “I’m hot and I know it, whether or not you
like it” on repeat mode in their minds. With the flair for creativity and
experiment that they would have tried and tested enough in the past, they now get so close in understanding their bodies; exactly know what
color, cut, fit in clothes suite them; how to make their tresses, what make up
to be used. Elegance becomes prime importance than being flashy and weird
looks. Taking care of the body as a place of worship is what it would be
called. This only means there’s a new burst of feeling young and youthful and
why not, after all age is just a number.
For having caught up in many situations in the past, by the
time you’re in your 30’s one thing for sure come’s to realization is no matter
what the situation, there definitely will be some life-changing twists and
turns that you as a person will embrace and learn to live by. You’re wise
enough to make friends who genuinely nurture and care about your friendship,
love and affection and reciprocate it in the same way if not better. You unabashedly
perform a cleansing act when you know someone is not important to you minus all
the guilt. Yes, guilt free living becomes the mantra of your life.
You truly realize the meaning of Me Time which allows you
to unplug from everything around you and just be yourself. Complimenting
yourself puts a smile on your face which in the earlier ages fished for “likes”
and “double taps” on social media. You no longer wait for a convincing compliment and neither does a criticizing remark brings down your morale.
And finally, you do get to a point to crack intelligent
jokes. Like famously quoted, you learn to CYA
